Understanding a child’s psyche is the most
difficult thing to do. Parent who tend to spend more time with their children have
a better understanding for the behaviour of their child. For example the parent
would know if the child is biting his nails when he does that or if he is
constantly grinding his teeth what makes him do that.
Having said that, the parents how spend time
with their children also knows how to better council their child. There are no
fixed of as they say a rule of thumb how to go about it but I believe if a
teacher informs the parent about his child being dangerous the following should
1. Parents should ask the child about his daily activities like
what did he do in school today how did he spent his day, who did he have his
lunch with at school or who does he go out to play with
2. Invite his friends over and meet them to see if he is keeping
a good company or not.
3. Discuss issues and case studies on the behavior that the
teacher pointed out like for example, “I heard that come child in the neighbors
had a fight at school today and he got suspended from school. I hope you are
not going through the same phase or not having such friends because that will ruin
your future my child” doing so will automatically initiate a change in the
child if he is not on the correct path.
4. Talk, talk, talk and talk no matter what the problem is the
child should not feel that he is being ignored or being cornered in the family.
More the parents talk to their children the more they groom their personalities
I believe that the best you can do on your
personal part if you are informed about your child being a danger