Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria?
Walk into any racially mixed high school cafeteria at lunch time and you will instantly notice that
cutting-edge the sea of adolescent faces, there is an identifiable group of Black students sitting together.
Conversely, it could be pointed out that there are many groups of White students sitting together as
well, though people rarely comment about that. The question on Principals want to know, teachers
want to know, White students want to know, the Black students who aren’t sitting at the table want to
know.
How does it happen that so many Black teenagers end up at the same cafeteria table? They
don’t start out there. If you walk into racially mixed elementary schools, you will often see young
children of diverse racial backgrounds playing with one another, sitting at the snack table together,
crossing racial boundaries with an ease uncommon in adolescence. Moving from elementary school to
middle school (often at sixth or seventh grade) means interacting with new children from different
neighborhoods that before, and a certain degree of clustering by race might therefore would form
groups. But even in schools where the same children stay together from kindergarten through eighth
grade, racial grouping begins by the sixth or seventh grade. What happens?
One thing that happens is puberty. As children enter adolescence, they begin to explore the
question of identity, asking “Who am I? Who can I be? in ways they have not done before. For Black
youth, asking “Who am I? includes thinking about “Who am I ethnically and/or racially? What does it
mean to be Black?
As I write this, I can hear the voice of a White woman who asked me, “Well, all adolescents
struggle with questions of identity. They all become more self-conscience about their appearance and
more concerned about what their peers think. So what is so different for Black kids? Of course, she is
right that all adolescents look at themselves in new ways, but not all adolescents think about themselves
in racial terms.
The search for personal identity that intensifies in adolescence can involve several dimensions of
an adolescent’s life: vocational plans, religious beliefs, values and preferences, political affiliations and
beliefs, gender roles, and ethnic identities. The process of exploration may vary across these identity
domains. James Marcia described four identity “statuses” to characterize the variation in the identity
search process: (1) diffuse, a state in which there has been little exploration or active consideration of a
particular domain, and no psychological commitment; (2) foreclosed, a state in which a commitment has
been made to particular roles or belief systems often those selected by parents, without actively
considering alternatives; (3) moratorium, a state to active exploration of roles and beliefs in which no
commitment to a particular dimension of identity following a period of high exploration.
An individual is not likely to explore all identity domains at once; therefore it is not unusual for
an adolescent to be actively exploring one dimension while another remains relatively unexamined.
Given the impact of dominant and subordinate status, it is not surprising that researches have found
that adolescents of color are more likely to be actively engaged in an exploration of their racial or ethnic
identity than are White adolescents.
Why do Black youths, in particular, think about themselves in terms of race? Because that is how
the rest of the world thinks of them. Our self-perceptions are shaped by the messages that we receive
from those around us, and when young Black men and women enter adolescence, the racial content of
those messages intensifies. A case in point: If you were to ask my ten-year-old son, David, to describe
himself, he would tell you many things: that he is smart, that he likes to play computer games, that he
has an older brother. Near the top of his list, he would likely mention that he is tall for his age. He would
probably not mention that he is Black, though he certainly knows that he is. Why would he mention his
height and not his racial group membership? When David meets new adults, one of the first questions
they ask is “How old are you?” When David states his age, the inevitable reply is “Gee, you’re tall for
your age!” It happens so frequently that I once overheard David say to someone, “Don’t say it, I know.
I’m tall for my age.” Height is salient for David because it is salient for others.
When David meets new adults, they don’t say “Gee, you’re Black for your age!” If you are saying
to yourself, of course they don’t, think again. Imagine David at fifteen, six-foot-two, wearing the
adolescent attire of the day, passing adults he doesn’t know on the sidewalk. Do the women hold their
purses a little tighter, maybe even cross the street to avoid him? Does he hear the sound of the
automatic door locks on cars as he passes by? Is he being followed around by the security guard at the
local mall? As he stops in town with his new bicycle, does a police officer hassle him, asking where he
got it, implying that it might be stolen? Do strangers assume he plays basketball? Each of these
experiences conveys a racial message. At ten, race is not yet salient for David, because it is not yet
salient for society. But it will be.
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