Iam very sorry for what is happening to you. THE BEST SOLUTION. They must seek permission from you before accessing your home ,intact you should not allow them to have your personal home keys because as a manager you have the duty and responsibility of the motel excluding your personal home.
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You have the right to know how much money you earn and the profits coming from your work .It help in assessing yourself and also in making marketing strategies .Those people are mistreating you and i advice you to stop the duties and responsibilities youre perfoming and take the matter to the court .alternative is to ask for your rights and privileges , talk everything on the board and sign an agreement.