Emotion
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ISSN: 1528-3542
2021, Vol. 21, No. 2, 260 –272
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Infants’ Attachment Insecurity Predicts Attachment-Relevant Emotion
Regulation Strategies in Adulthood
Yuthika U. Girme
Rachael E. Jones, Cory Fleck, and
Jeffry A. Simpson
Simon Fraser University
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University of Minnesota
Nickola C. Overall
University of Auckland
Infant attachment is theorized to lay the foundation of emotion regulation across the life span. However,
testing this proposition requires prospective designs examining whether attachment assessed in infancy
predicts emotion regulation strategies observed in adult relationships. Using unique data from the
Minnesota Longitudinal Study of Risk and Adaptation, we examined whether infant attachment assessed
at 12 and 18 months in the Strange Situation were associated with attachment-relevant emotion regulation
strategies coded from video-recorded conflict discussions with romantic partners at ages 20, 23, 26,
and/or 35. The current research first integrated the developmental and emotion regulation literatures to
identify three specific attachment-relevant emotion regulation strategies. Balanced-regulation involves
being open, approach-orientated, and engaging in collaborative problem-solving. Hypo-regulation involves suppressing emotions, disengaging from close others, and engaging in superficial problemsolving. Hyper-regulation involves exaggerating emotional expressions, ruminating, and being selffocused in processing issues. Compared to stable secure infants (secure at 12 and 18 months), stable
insecure infants (insecure at 12 and 18 months) displayed worse balanced-regulation and greater
hypo-regulation strategies, and unstable insecure infants (insecure at 12 or 18 months) displayed greater
hyper-regulation strategies, in relationship-threatening situations 20 –35 years later. Conceptually replicating these results, greater friendship insecurity at age 16 predicted worse balanced-regulation and
greater hypo- and hyper-regulation strategies during relationship-threatening situations in adulthood.
These findings highlight that infant attachment insecurity is associated with distinct emotion regulation
strategies in adulthood 20 –35 years later.
Keywords: attachment insecurity, emotion regulation, infant attachment
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prospectively predicts theoretically relevant patterns of emotion
regulation in adulthood. This is a significant gap in our knowledge
given that better emotion regulation is crucial for wellbeing (Aldao, Nolen-Hoeksema, & Schweizer, 2010; Chervonsky & Hunt,
2017). In the current research, we integrate theoretical perspectives
in the attachment literature (Cassidy, 1994; Main, 1990; Mikulincer, Shaver, & Pereg, 2003) with evidence from the developmental and emotion regulation literatures (Naragon-Gainey,
McMahon, & Chacko, 2017; Pallini et al., 2018) to identify
attachment-relevant emotion regulation strategies (see Table 1).
We then use existing data from a unique longitudinal study to test
whether infant attachment insecurity prospectively predicts these
attachment-relevant emotion regulation strategies in relationship
threatening situations in adulthood 20 –35 years later.
Does infant attachment provide the foundation for emotion
regulation behavior in adulthood? Attachment theory postulates
that early life experiences with caregivers shape the way people
will regulate their emotions in threatening situations in adulthood
(Bowlby, 1973; Bretherton & Munholland, 2008; Cassidy, 1994;
Main, 1990; Marvin, Britner, & Russell, 2016). Despite the major
influence of attachment theory in understanding adult social behavior, no prior research has established whether infant attachment
This article was published Online First January 9, 2020.
X Yuthika U. Girme, Department of Psychology, Simon Fraser University; Rachael E. Jones, Cory Fleck, and X Jeffry A. Simpson, Department
of Psychology, University of Minnesota; X Nickola C. Overall, School of
Psychology, University of Auckland.
This research was supported by National Institute of Aging Grant
AG039453 (Jeffry A. Simpson, PI).
Correspondence concerning this article should be addressed to Yuthika
U. Girme, Department of Psychology, Simon Fraser University, 8888
University Drive, Burnaby, BC V5A1S6, Canada. E-mail: ygirme@sfu.ca
Theoretical Perspectives Linking Attachment
Insecurity and Emotion Regulation Strategies
A core tenet of attachment theory is that caregivers act as a safe
haven that help calm infants when distressed and act as a secure
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Table 1
Attachment-Relevant Emotion Regulation Strategies Identified by Integrating Theoretical Perspectives in the Attachment Literature
and Evidence From the Emotion Regulation Literature
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Emotion regulation strategies in
adulthood identified by attachment
theory
Emotion regulation strategies in
adulthood based on meta-analysis
Attachment-relevant emotion regulation strategies
in adult conflict interactions
Coregulation strategies: seeking
proximity to close others in
constructive and adaptive ways, and
trusting that close others will provide
responsive support
Adaptive engagement: problemsolving and behaviors that involve
reappraising or accepting negative
events/outcomes
Deactivating strategies: suppressing/
minimizing negative emotions to limit
the hurt and disappointment that is
expected to occur when depending on
close others
Disengagement: attempting to avoid
or shift focus from an
emotionally-relevant situation by
using distraction, expressive
suppression, or disengagement to
minimize the impact of negative
feelings
Hyperactivating strategies: exacerbating
negative emotional expressions and
dependence on close others to reestablish and maintain others’
attention and care
Aversive cognitive perseveration:
over-engagement with, or
difficulty disengaging from,
negative thoughts/feelings by
ruminating, worrying, or avoiding
negative experiences
Balanced-regulation: Balanced emotion: open,
comfortable and self-assured expression and
acknowledgment of emotions/feelings
Collaborative engagement: accepting joint
responsibilities, encouraging the partner’s
contribution to problem-solving, and operating
as a team
Approach-oriented problem-solving: constructive,
direct efforts to move forward and solve the
problem without dwelling on the causes and
consequences
Hypo-regulation: Hypo-emotion expression:
emotional elements of communication are
muted and individual attempts to suppress or
conceal his/her emotions
Avoidance/disengagement: lack of engagement
and dismissing approach to the problem
Superficial problem-solving: communication and
any problem-solving is superficial, lacks depth,
and “skims the surface”
Hyper-regulation: Hyper emotion expression:
exaggerated emotional expressions and pulling
emotions from the partner
Ruminative problem engagement: fixating on and
amplifying the symptoms, causes and
consequences of the problem, and one’s own
thoughts/feelings
Self-focused orientation: focusing on own desires
and needs, such as being heard and cared for
by the partner
base for infants to return to safe exploration of their environment.
Early theoretical perspectives have suggested that infants develop
automatic and unconscious behavioral strategies in response to
different types of caregiving experiences they receive (Main,
1990), and one such strategy involves how infants regulate their
emotions (Cassidy, 1994; also see Cassidy & Berlin, 1994). For
example, securely attached infants have generally received responsive care, which leads them to believe that close others will be
available and responsive in future interactions (Bowlby, 1973).
Secure infants are theorized to demonstrate open and flexible
emotion expression that allows them to signal their needs to their
caregiver freely and directly, and, upon being calmed, return to
play and exploration (Cassidy, 1994). In adulthood, security and
trust in others’ availability should result in coregulation strategies
during times of need, which involve seeking proximity to close
others and engaging in open emotional expression to soothe any
distress and allow engagement in adaptive problem solving (see
Table 1; Mikulincer et al., 2003; Shaver & Mikulincer, 2002).
Insecurely attached infants, conversely, have typically received
poorer caregiving thereby fostering negative expectations of others
and the self that lead them to develop different emotion regulation
strategies (Bowlby, 1973; Cassidy, 1994; Main, 1990). These
attachment representations and accompanying regulation strategies
are reinforced across time and serve as a prototype for attachment
representations in adulthood (for a meta-analytic review, see Fra-
ley, 2002; also see Fraley, Roisman, Booth-LaForce, Owen, &
Holland, 2013). Most insecure infants are either (a) avoidantly
attached (anxious/avoidant) due to cold, rejecting care or (b)
anxiously attached (anxious/resistant) due to inconsistent care
(Ainsworth, Blehar, Waters, & Wall, 1978; Bowlby, 1973). In
response to the caregiving they have received, infants classified as
avoidant are theorized to minimize their emotion expressions
because they fear that expressing emotions might lead to rejection
(Cassidy, 1994). Instead, avoidant infants hide their distress to
maintain proximity to caregivers and not trigger the rejection that
occurs when they seek attention or care (Main & Solomon, 1986).
In adulthood, attachment avoidance promotes deactivating strategies, which involve distancing oneself from one’s attachment
figure and suppressing or minimizing negative emotions in order
to limit the hurt avoidant individuals anticipate from depending on
close others (see Table 1; Mikulincer et al., 2003; Shaver &
Mikulincer, 2002). Infants classified as resistant are theorized to
have heightened emotion expression (Cassidy, 1994; Cassidy &
Berlin, 1994) because they learn that they need to increase their
bids for attention in order to draw attention from their caregivers
(Main & Solomon, 1986). Similarly, in adulthood, attachment
anxiety should promote hyperactivating strategies that involve
amplifying expressions of negative emotions and dependence on
close others in order to reestablish and maintain attention and care
(see Table 1; Mikulincer et al., 2003; Shaver & Mikulincer, 2002).
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Notably, the developmental and emotion regulation literatures
have also identified several emotion regulation strategies commonly used in adolescence and adulthood (Pallini et al., 2018). In
fact, as summarized in Table 1, a recent meta-analysis indicates
that these emotion regulation strategies load onto three factors that
align very closely with the three emotion regulation strategies
identified in the attachment literature (Naragon-Gainey et al.,
2017). Specifically, adaptive engagement (similar to the coregulation strategy) involves problem-solving and behaviors that include reappraising negative events/outcomes. Disengagement
(similar to the deactivating strategy) involves attempting to avoid
or focus away from an emotionally relevant situation by using
distraction, expressive suppression, or disengagement to minimize
negative feelings. Aversive cognitive perseveration (similar to the
hyperactivating strategy) involves overengagement with or rumination of negative thoughts and feelings.
Empirical Support Linking Attachment Insecurity and
Emotion Regulation Strategies
Both the attachment and emotion regulation literatures highlight
three key patterns of emotion regulation that should distinguish
secure and insecure individuals. No research to date, however, has
examined whether being securely versus insecurely attached early
in life is prospectively related to these specific attachment-relevant
emotion regulation strategies displayed in adult romantic relationships. This is in part because longitudinal attachment studies may
not have been designed with these a priori hypotheses in mind
(Dozier, Manni, & Lindhiem, 2005), and so prior research has
predominately focused on broad (rather than specific) indicators of
emotion regulation strategies later in life (Dagan & Sagi-Schwartz,
2018). What is clear from existing work is that attachment insecurity is associated with worse emotion regulation more generally.
Recent meta-analytic reviews in the developmental literature have
shown that infants rated as more insecure (compared to secure)
tend to have worse effortful control (Pallini et al., 2018) and worse
emotion regulation/coping strategies (Zimmer-Gembeck et al.,
2017) during early childhood and adolescence. Furthermore, compared to secure infants, insecure infants experience greater negative affect, are less able to regulate their emotions, engage in
maladaptive cognitive coping strategies, and avoid turning to others for support during childhood and adolescence (Cooke, Kochendorfer, Stuart-Parrigon, Koehn, & Kerns, 2019).
The link between insecure attachment and maladaptive emotion
regulation is also corroborated by cross-sectional work examining
attachment insecurity in romantic relationships. Adults who are
securely attached to romantic partners seek proximity to their
partners when distressed, reappraise negative situations more constructively, and exhibit greater resilience in distressing situations
(Karreman & Vingerhoets, 2012; Simpson, Rholes, & Nelligan,
1992). In contrast, adults who are insecurely attached to romantic
partners enact more maladaptive strategies. For example, highly
avoidant individuals suppress their emotional reactions, thoughts,
and feelings, whereas highly anxious individuals fixate on their
emotional experiences and exaggerate hurt feelings to increase
their partners’ care and attention (Low, Overall, Cross, & Henderson, 2019; Overall, Girme, Lemay, & Hammond, 2014; Overall,
Simpson, & Struthers, 2013). Furthermore, highly anxious or
highly avoidant individuals are less able to be open about their
thoughts and feelings or express their emotions in a constructive
manner (Low et al., 2019).
Unique longitudinal evidence also demonstrates that infant attachment insecurity can lead to over engagement with negative
emotions in childhood, which can interfere with effective emotion
regulation and relationship functioning in adulthood. For example,
the London Parent–Child Project provides evidence that children
who are insecurely attached to their mothers are less likely to
acknowledge their distress or discuss adaptive coping strategies at
age 11, and children who are insecurely attached to their fathers
have difficulty resolving conflicts with siblings and friends at age
11 (Steele & Steele, 2005). The Bielefeld and Regensburg studies
have also demonstrated that infants’ attachment security to their
mothers and fathers predict whether children and adolescence are
able to regulate emotions and openly turn to others for help during
challenging situations (Grossmann, Grossmann, & Kindler, 2005).
Data from the Minnesota Longitudinal Study of Risk and Adaptation has already provided evidence that infants who were rated
insecurely attached more often demonstrate worse relationship
quality as observed during couples’ conflict and collaboration
tasks (Roisman, Collins, Sroufe, & Egeland, 2005), display greater
intensity of negative emotions during couples’ conflict discussions
(Simpson, Collins, Tran, & Haydon, 2007), and find it more
difficult to recover following couples’ conflict discussions (Salvatore, Kuo, Steele, Simpson, & Collins, 2011).
Taken together, although research across the adult attachment
and developmental literatures provide evidence that attachment
insecurity is associated with poorer emotion regulation in general,
these studies do not reveal how infant attachment is associated
with specific attachment-relevant emotion regulation strategies in
adulthood (balanced-, hypo-, or hyper-regulation strategies). This
distinction is important because although infant attachment insecurity should be related to less constructive emotion regulation in
general, these types of associations may also be predicted by
nonattachment processes (Dozier et al., 2005). Thus, it is important
to illustrate whether individuals adopt specific emotion regulation
strategies that are theorized to be adaptive based on their history of
caregiving. We aim to fill this gap in the literature by examining
whether infants’ attachment security is associated with attachmentrelevant emotion regulation strategies, such as balancedregulation, hypo-regulation, and hyper-regulation strategies during
relationship threatening discussions in adulthood (see Table 1).
The Current Study
Using existing data from the Minnesota Longitudinal Study of
Risk and Adaptation (MLSRA; Sroufe, Egeland, Carlson, & Collins, 2005), we examined whether infant attachment prospectively
predicts attachment-relevant emotion regulation strategies in adulthood (see Table 1). Infants’ attachment status (secure vs. insecure)
was assessed at 12 and 18 months in the Strange Situation (Ainsworth et al., 1978). Integrating prior theory and research summarized above, we identified attachment-relevant emotion regulation
strategies that should map onto secure, avoidant, and anxious
attachment patterns in adulthood (see Table 1). These emotion
regulation strategies were assessed in a video-recorded situation in
adulthood— discussing a major conflict with their romantic partner
at ages 20, 23, 26, and/or 35. Relationship conflict requires adaptive emotion regulation for optimal interpersonal functioning (Ko-
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bak & Duemmler, 1994; Simpson & Rholes, 2012). Thus, we had
observational assessments in both infancy and adulthood in specific, age-appropriate, attachment-relevant situations spanning 20
to 35 years.
Notably, unlike the adult attachment literature that assesses
individuals’ level of attachment anxiety and avoidance, prior practices in the developmental literature have typically classified infant
attachment as “secure” versus “insecure” because these samples
typically do not have enough participants to distinguish secure,
anxious, or avoidant attachment patterns. In instances where infant
attachment is assessed at 12 and 18 months (as in the MLSRA),
infant attachment assessments have typically reflected the number
of times that infants were rated secure (0, 1, or 2 times; Sroufe et
al., 2005). This continuous approach, however, assumes a linear
progression of insecurity that does not reflect other perspectives in
the attachment literature, including the view that attachment can be
unstable across time (Fraley & Roisman, 2019; Groh et al., 2014;
Scharfe, 2003). Accordingly, we wanted to compare different
patterns of infant attachment (similar to the approach taken by
Vaughn, Egeland, Sroufe, & Waters, 1979): infants rated as secure
at both 12 and 18 months (stable secures), infants rated as insecure
at both 12 and 18 months (stable insecures), and infants rated as
insecure at only one of the two times during infancy (unstable
insecures). Nonetheless, given that previous work has examined
continuous measures of infant attachment insecurity, we also present the results based on the continuous measure of attachment
insecurity.
Consistent with the prior literature, we expected that any form of
insecure attachment in childhood should undermine emotion regulation compared to secure attachment. Thus, we predicted that,
compared to stable secure infants, stable insecure infants and
unstable insecure infants would display fewer balanced-regulation
strategies and poorer regulation strategies (i.e., hypo-regulation or
hyper-regulation) during major conflict discussions with their romantic partners in adulthood. We did not, however, derive hypotheses about the specific maladaptive regulation strategies (i.e.,
hypo-regulation or hyper-regulation) that might be associated with
individuals who were stable insecure versus unstable insecure
infants. Some prior research insinuates that individuals who were
stable insecure infants might display the worst emotion regulation
strategies in adulthood to the extent that their stable insecurity
stems from consistently harsh caregiving environments, such as
those fraught with poverty or low socioeconomic status (Szepsenwol & Simpson, 2019). Individuals who were unstably insecure as
infants, in contrast, may have been exposed to very different life
experiences and caregiving environments, such as those containing
frequent familial conflict, inconsistent financial resources, or tumultuous relationships on the part of their caregivers, resulting in
different patterns of emotion regulation compared to individuals
who were stably insecure as infants (Szepsenwol & Simpson,
2019; Thompson & Calkins, 1996; also see Katz & Gottman,
1991; Zahn-Waxler & Kochanska, 1990).
The unique nature of the MLSRA also provided an opportunity
for conceptual replication of the predicted associations examining
adolescent attachment security with another developmentally relevant attachment figure—their closest friend at age 16 (Simpson et
al., 2007; Sroufe, Egeland, & Carlson, 1999).1 Friendship security
is particularly relevant given that attachment security develops
across the life span through continued interactions with other
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developmentally relevant attachment figures (Bowlby, 1969;
Thompson, 1999; Waters & Cummings, 2000). Given the foundational proposition that security earlier in life should shape later
emotion regulation strategies, we hypothesized that—just as in
infancy—adolescents rated as more insecure with their best friend
would display less balanced and greater hypo-regulation or hyperregulation regulation strategies during their conflict discussions in
adulthood.
Method
Participants
The data were collected on participants involved in the MLSRA
(Sroufe et al., 2005). All procedures were performed in accordance
with the University of Minnesota institutional review board. This
40-year prospective study of initially at-risk children and their
mothers began in 1975–1976, when 267 women were recruited
from Minneapolis public health clinics where they were receiving
free prenatal care. Within the original sample, 58% of the primary
participants (i.e., the children) were European American, 14%
were African American, 3% were Native American/Latino, 16%
were of mixed racial background, and 9% were unclassifiable
because of missing data on their father’s ethnicity. Fifty-five
percent of the original sample was male.
We drew on an existing and unique longitudinal study to test our
hypotheses, thus the sample size was determined by focusing on a
subset of participants from the original sample (N ⫽ 102) who met
two criteria: (a) their attachment status had been assessed in the
Strange Situation (Ainsworth et al., 1978) when they were 12 and
18 months old and (b) they had been videotaped trying to resolve
a major conflict with their romantic partner at one or more of four
waves during adulthood (at ages 20, 23, 26, and/or 35). We used
each individual’s data across all assessment waves to maximize
power, increase reliability of assessment, and maximize the use of
data available. To be videotaped at one or more of these waves,
targets (i.e., participants in the MLSRA) had to be involved in a
romantic relationship that had existed for at least 4 months at that
wave to ensure they could identify a major conflict. One hundred
and one couples were heterosexual, and one couple was in a
same-sex relationship. Forty-two of the 102 participants (41.18%)
completed two or more relationship assessments with the same
partner. Descriptive statistics for the mean age of participants and
relationship length at each wave is available in Table 2. This
subsample did not differ from the original sample on socioeconomic status (measured prenatally, at age 16, or in adulthood),
gender, ethnicity, or attachment security.
1
We could not examine the association between adult attachment security toward romantic partners and attachment-relevant emotion regulation
strategies because half of our observations (N ⫽ 93) were collected at ages
20 and 23, years prior to when self-reported adult attachment was collected
at ages 26 and 35 years (N ⫽ 95). Furthermore, the measures of adult
attachment that were collected at ages 26 and 35 years use different
methods (e.g., Adult Attachment Interview vs. Attachment Script Assessment, respectively) and focus (parents vs. attachment across several important relationships), limiting our ability to combine these ratings.
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Table 2
Descriptive Statistics (Means and Standard Deviations) for Demographic Measures, Friendship Security in Adolescence, and Emotion
Regulation Strategies in Adulthood
Adolescence
(16 years old;
n ⫽ 94)
Wave 1 (20
years old;
n ⫽ 66)
Wave 2 (23
years old;
n ⫽ 27)
Wave 3 (26
years old;
n ⫽ 60)
Variable
M
SD
M
SD
M
SD
M
SD
M
SD
Participant age (years)
Relationship length (months)
Friendship security
Balanced-regulation strategy
Hypo-regulation strategy
Hyper-regulation strategy
Partners’ balanced-regulation strategy
Partners’ hypo-regulation strategy
Partners’ hyper-regulation strategy
15.73
—
4.58
—
—
—
—
—
—
.47
—
1.36
—
—
—
—
—
—
20.16
26.16
—
2.80
2.61
1.96
2.96
2.39
2.26
.74
20.62
—
1.26
1.41
1.21
1.33
1.42
1.56
22.59
35.38
—
3.20
1.87
2.30
3.31
2.13
2.07
.64
20.21
—
1.30
.87
1.31
1.62
1.12
1.51
26.62
55.09
—
3.73
2.03
1.61
3.80
1.83
1.73
.86
32.58
—
1.29
1.18
1.08
1.32
1.04
.91
34.98
100.50
—
3.26
2.67
2.26
3.57
1.91
2.84
.86
68.14
—
1.66
1.72
1.27
1.73
1.29
1.57
Wave 4 (35 years
old; n ⫽ 35)
Note. Friendship security and emotion regulation strategies were assessed on a scale ranging from 1 to 7. Emotion regulation strategies were observed
during interactions with romantic partners at each wave, but each wave had a different sample size based on whether participants were involved in romantic
relationships or participants in that wave of data collection. Each individual’s emotion regulation scores were used across all assessment waves in the
analyses to maximize power, increase reliability of assessment, and maximize the use of data available.
Procedure and Measures
The MLSRA contains numerous measures collected at various
stages of participants’ social development. We focus on the specific measures relevant to testing our predictions.
Infant–mother attachment security. The quality of each
mother–infant attachment relationship was assessed using Ainsworth’s Strange Situation Procedure (see Ainsworth & Wittig,
1969) when target participants were 12 and 18 months old. The
Strange Situation Procedure is a 20-min laboratory procedure
during which infants are exposed to a series of stressful separations
from and reunions with their primary caregiver (the mother in the
MLSRA), some of which also involve the presence of a stranger in
the room. The behavioral coding of attachment status (i.e., secure
or insecure) focuses on how infants interact with and manage their
emotions vis-à-vis their caregiver during reunions. Parent– child
dyads in which infants turn to and use their mothers as a source of
comfort and support, regulate their negative emotions well (calm
down), and then resume play or exploration in the room, are
classified as secure. Parent– child dyads in which infants either do
not turn to or effectively use their mothers as a source of comfort
and support, are not able to regulate their negative emotions
(remain distressed), and do not resume play or exploration, are
classified as insecure.
Infant attachment security classifications were coded based on
how each infant responded to the separations and reunions with
their mother. Rater agreement for attachment classification at 12
months was 89% and was 93% at 18 months (Egeland & Farber,
1984). Infant attachment ratings at 12- and 18-months are displayed in Table 3. Similar to other samples, the number of anxious
(anxious/resistant) and avoidant (anxious/avoidant) individuals in
our sample was low, preventing us from having the statistical
power needed to analyze our data according to secure, anxious, or
avoidant categories. Instead, secure attachment was coded 0 and
insecure attachment was coded 1 at each assessment. To compare
across the different patterns of attachment insecurity ratings at 12
and 18 months, these ratings were converted to dummy-coded
variables as follows: (a) stable insecure infants who were insecure
at both 12 and 18 months (0 ⫽ no, 1 ⫽ yes; n ⫽ 21, 20.6%) and
(b) unstable insecure infants who were insecure at only 12 or only
18 months (n ⫽ 34, 33.3%; 0 ⫽ no, 1 ⫽ yes). Individuals with
ratings of 0 on both variables were stable secure infants who were
secure at both 12 and 18 months (n ⫽ 47, 46.1%). We also created
a continuous measure of infant attachment (0 ⫽ insecure at both 12
and 18 months, 1 ⫽ insecure at 1 time-point, 2 ⫽ secure at both
time-points; Sroufe et al., 2005).
Adolescent friendship security with best friend. Each target
participant’s degree of friendship security with their closest friend
was rated from 1 (low, insecure) to 7 (high, secure) at age 16 from
a comprehensive interview. This measure was based on the premise that attachment security versus insecurity in later relationships
should be facilitated by security in earlier relationships (Bowlby,
1969; Thompson, 1999; Waters & Cummings, 2000) and has been
used previously to indicate friendship security (Simpson et al.,
2007). The comprehensive interview was designed to examine
identity development and adolescent functioning in different domains, including occupation, religion, politics, friendship, and
dating (Grotevant & Cooper, 1981). Interviewers were blind to
participants’ infant attachment ratings. Each interview consisted of
about 120 main questions (with subcomponents based on how
adolescents answered questions), 22 of which asked specifically
about the adolescent’s closest friend. Example questions included,
“How sure are you that your friend will be there for you?” and
Table 3
Frequency of Infant–Mother Attachment Ratings During the
Strange Situation at 12 and 18 Months
Infant attachment
ratings at 12
months
Secure
Avoidant
Anxious
Totals
Infant attachment ratings at 18 months
Secure
Avoidant
Anxious
Totals
47
11
8
66 (64.7%)
12
8
2
22 (21.6%)
3
4
7
14 (13.7%)
62 (60.8%)
23 (22.5%)
17 (16.7%)
102 (100%)
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“Has there ever been a time when you thought your friendship
would end? Why? How did you feel about that?” Coders, who
were also blind to participants’ infant attachment ratings, listened
to the audiorecorded responses to these questions to assess friendship security. Coders’ ratings were based on target participants’
descriptions of their closest friendship, including the degree to
which the target participant shared or withheld emotional or difficult information from their closest friend, was confident that their
friend accepted them, and expected that their friend would be
available and supportive when needed. Because coders were experts and trained to specific coding criteria, two trained coders
rated 25–35% of the sample on global friendship security on a
7-point scale. Once reasonable interrater reliability was established
(intraclass correlation [ICC] ⫽ .59; the Spearman-Brown correction was .74), one coder rated the remainder of the sample.
Adulthood attachment-relevant emotion regulation
strategies. Target participants who were involved in a romantic
relationship lasting at least 4 months participated with their partners in a laboratory session at ages 20, 23, 26, and/or 35. Participants and their partners were first interviewed separately and then
completed a battery of self-report measures that assessed the
functioning of their relationship. Each couple member then completed a relationship problem inventory privately to identify and
rate the most salient problems in the relationship. Each couple
reviewed these together and chose the one problem that caused the
most conflict in their relationship. Couples were then asked to
discuss the chosen problem and attempt to reach a solution in a
10-min video-recorded discussion. These interactions were subsequently coded by trained observers for the three emotion regulation strategies described in Table 1.
As summarized in Table 1, we used a new behavioral coding
schedule (Overall & Girme, 2014) based on attachment-relevant
regulation strategies identified using similar observational methods during infancy (see Strange Situation Procedure; Ainsworth &
Wittig, 1969), theorized about in the adult attachment literature
(Mikulincer & Shaver, 2016; Shaver & Mikulincer, 2002; see
Table 1, first column), and emotion regulation strategies documented in the developmental and emotion regulation literatures
(Pallini et al., 2018). Notably, a recent meta-analytic factor analysis provided evidence of the most commonly reported emotion
regulation strategies in adulthood that cohere to the three emotion
regulation strategies we identified (Naragon-Gainey et al., 2017;
see Table 1, middle column). The current approach allows us to (a)
reflect on broad patterns of regulation that capture behaviors and
emotion expressions that underpin the shared similarities in theorized attachment regulation strategies and empirically supported
emotion regulation categories and (b) allows us to use observational assessments at different ages (infancy vs. adulthood) and
within developmentally appropriate attachment-relevant situations
(Strange Situation Procedure vs. major relationship conflict interactions).
Coders who were blind to the identity of the target participant
and their infant attachment scores rated the extent to which both
partners engaged in the three types of attachment-relevant emotion
regulation strategies (see Table 1). (See the online supplementary
materials for a more detailed presentation of the coding schedule;
also see Low et al., 2019 for an example of the use and validity of
this coding schedule during similar relationship conflict discussions.) The balanced-regulation strategy involves acknowledging
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the problem, taking active efforts to make progress toward solving
the problem collaboratively, and open, self-assured disclosure of
thoughts, opinions and emotions. The hypo-regulation strategy
involves a lack of engagement with the partner, and the adoption
of a passive and dismissing approach to problem-solving that is
conveyed by superficial, nonintimate disclosures and suppressed
or constrained emotional expressions. The hyper-regulation strategy involves clear engagement in the discussion but in ways that
fixate on and amplify the symptoms, causes, and consequences of
the problem rather than solutions to it. This strategy also emphasizes the need to be more heard and cared for by the partner, which
are conveyed by the expression of exaggerated emotions or trying
to “pull” emotions from their partner (e.g., love, guilt) to obtain
reassurance.
Two coders independently rated the degree to which each couple member engaged in each of these emotion regulation strategies
during their attempt to resolve the major relationship disagreement
(1–2 ⫽ low, 3–5 ⫽ moderate, 6 –7 ⫽ high). In determining scores,
coders started from a baseline of 1 (no presence of emotion
regulation strategy) and moved upward on the scale as indicators
of each emotion regulation strategy were displayed, taking into
account indicator frequency, duration and intensity. Coders’ ratings for individuals’ balanced-, hypo-, and hyper-regulation strategies were reliable (ICCs ⫽ .947, .945, and .923, respectively) and
were averaged.2
Results
Descriptive statistics across each wave are displayed in Table 2.
We assessed attachment-relevant emotion regulation strategies
across all available waves of romantic conflict discussion data.
Thus, some MLSRA participants (targets) contributed more than
one wave of romantic conflict data. Specifically, 48 participants
contributed just one wave of data, 31 contributed two waves of
data, 14 contributed three waves of data, and nine contributed all
four waves of data, giving us a total of 188 observations (average
wave per person ⫽ 1.84). Given the nested structure of our data
(i.e., waves nested under individuals), we followed Bolger and
Laurenceau’s (2013) recommendations for analyzing repeated
measures data, using the MIXED procedure in SPSS 24 and
applying an autoregressive covariance structure across all statistical models described below. Furthermore, restricted maximum
likelihood, the default estimation technique when using the
MIXED procedure in SPSS, accounts for missing data without
excluding participants who completed only one to three waves of
data by weighting the extent to which the effect for each participant contributes to the total effect, given the reliability of their data
(i.e., the number of measurements; see Bolger & Laurenceau,
2013).
2
Individuals’ balanced-regulation was negatively associated with both
hypo-regulation (balanced-regulation ¡ hypo-regulation: B ⫽ ⫺.63,
t ⫽ ⫺11.31, p ⬍ .001) and hyper-regulation (balanced-regulation ¡
hyper-regulation: B ⫽ ⫺.34, t ⫽ ⫺5.61, p ⬍ .001) strategies, but hypoand hyper-regulation strategies were not associated with one another
(hyper-regulation ¡ hypo-regulation: B ⫽ ⫺.11, t ⫽ ⫺1.32, p ⫽ .19)
supporting that they represent distinct emotion regulation strategies.
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insecure at 1 time-point, 2 ⫽ secure at both time-points; Sroufe et
al., 2005). As shown in Table 5, the results suggest that as the
number of times infants were classified as secure increased, hyporegulation decreased. There was no association between continuous infant attachment and hyper-regulation or balanced-regulation
strategies. As did our primary analyses in Table 4 (top section),
these results support that infant security observed in the strange
situation at 12 and 18 provide a foundation for emotion regulation
across the life span, and in particular being rated insecure more
times during infancy predicts hypo-regulation strategies during
adult attachment-relevant interactions. However, this comparison
also illustrates that examining different patterns of infant attachment based on the stability of secure versus insecure classification
yield unique insights that a continuous measure of infant attachment might not capture, such as predicting balanced-regulation and
hyper-regulation strategies in adulthood. We further consider these
distinctions in the discussion.
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Does Infant–Mother Attachment Predict Emotion
Regulation Strategies in Adulthood?
Attachment insecurity patterns and emotion regulation in
adulthood. We first ran a series of multilevel models that regressed individuals’ emotion regulation strategies in adulthood
onto their infant attachment insecurity dummy-coded variables,
which indexed (a) stable insecure infants who were insecure at
both 12 and 18 months (0 ⫽ no, 1 ⫽ yes) and (b) unstable insecure
infants who were insecure at only 12 or only 18 months (0 ⫽ no,
1 ⫽ yes). Individuals with ratings of 0 on both variables, therefore,
were stable secure infants who were secure at both 12 and 18
months. The results are presented in Table 4 (top section). Compared to individuals classified as stable secure in infancy, those
classified as stable insecure in infancy displayed lower balancedregulation and greater hypo-regulation strategies 20 –35 years later
during discussion of a major conflict with their romantic partner.
Moreover, relative to individuals classified as stable secure in
infancy, individuals classified as unstable insecure in infancy
displayed greater hyper-regulation strategies while discussing a
conflict with their romantic partner in adulthood. These associations support a key premise of attachment theory that infant
security provides a foundation for emotion regulation across the
life span. In particular, these data offer the first evidence spanning
20 –35 years that infant attachment observed in the strange situation at 12 and 18 months prospectively predicts emotion regulation
strategies observed in adult conflict interactions at 20 –35 years of
age in theoretically relevant ways.
Continuous attachment security and emotion regulation in
adulthood. Our aim was to examine how different patterns of
infant attachment across 12 and 18 months (i.e., stable secures,
stable insecures, and unstable insecures) were associated with
attachment-relevant emotion regulation strategies in adulthood.
However, readers might be curious to know the results based on a
continuous measure of infant attachment, as has been used in prior
research. Thus, we reran our analyses using a continuous measure
of infant attachment (0 ⫽ insecure at both 12 and 18 months, 1 ⫽
Does Friendship Security in Adolescent Predict
Emotion Regulation Strategies in Adulthood?
Next, we wanted to conceptually replicate the associations between earlier attachment security and later emotion regulation
strategies in adulthood using a measure of attachment security
during another developmentally relevant period—participant s’
friendship security with their closest friend at age 16. We ran a
series of multilevel models that regressed individuals’ emotion
regulation strategies in adulthood onto their friendship security
ratings (1 ⫽ more insecure, 7 ⫽ more secure), and controlled for
the infant attachment insecurity dummy-coded variables, which
indexed (a) stable insecure infants who were insecure at both 12
and 18 months (0 ⫽ no, 1 ⫽ yes), and (b) unstable insecure infants
who were insecure at only 12 or only 18 months (0 ⫽ no, 1 ⫽ yes).
Thus, any resulting associations between friendship security and
emotion regulation strategies in adulthood represent independent
associations beyond the effects of infant security. The results are
presented in Table 4 (bottom section). Revealing a similar pattern
Table 4
Associations Between Infant Attachment Status (12 and 18 Months) and Adolescent Attachment Security (Age 16) and Adult Emotion
Regulation Strategies (Between 20 and 35 Years)
Adults’ balanced-regulation strategies
Adults’ hypo-regulation strategies
95% CI
Variable
B
t
p
Low
High
Intercept
Stable insecures
Unstable insecures
3.28 19.27
ⴚ.65 ⴚ2.02
⫺.05 ⫺.21
.000 2.94 3.62
.045 ⴚ1.29 ⴚ.01
.834 ⫺.57
.46
Intercept
Adolescent security
Stable insecures
Unstable insecures
3.28 19.12
.27
3.14
⫺.58 ⫺1.76
⫺.06 ⫺.24
.000 2.94
.002
.10
.081 ⫺1.24
.809 ⫺.59
Adults’ hyper-regulation strategies
95% CI
r
B
t
p
95% CI
Low
High
r
B
t
Infants’ attachment to mother
.89 2.29 14.01 .000 1.96
.19
.91
2.95 .004
.30
.02 ⫺.16 ⫺.64 .524 ⫺.66
2.61
1.53
.34
.83
.27
.07
1.75
.18
.59
12.36
.66
2.73
Adolescents’ attachment to closest friend
3.62 .90 2.30 13.99 .000 1.98 2.63
.44 .32 ⴚ.19 ⴚ2.31 .024 ⴚ.03 ⴚ.36
.07 .17
.87
2.73 .008
.24 1.50
.46 .03 ⫺.14 ⫺.57 .571 ⫺.64
.36
.84 1.74 12.97
.25 ⴚ.16 ⴚ2.32
.27
.13
.48
.06
.51
2.47
p
Low
High
r
.000 1.47
.511 ⫺.36
.008
.16
2.03
.72
1.02
.82
.07
.30
.000 1.47 2.00
.024 ⴚ.02 ⴚ.29
.635 ⫺.40
.65
.016
.10
.91
.85
.28
.05
.29
Note. CI ⫽ confidence interval. Infant attachment ratings were dummy-coded. Stable insecure infants were rated insecure at both 12 and 18 months.
Unstable insecure infants were rated insecure at either 12 or 18 months. The model intercept reflects Stable Secure infants’ emotion regulation scores.
Adolescent security was rated by interviewers (1 ⫽ insecure, 7 ⫽ secure). Significant effects are highlighted in bold. Effect sizes (r) were computed using
Rosenthal and Rosnow’s (2007) formula: r ⫽ 公(t2 / t2 ⫹ df).
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Table 5
Associations Between Continuous Infant Attachment Insecurity (12 and 18 Months) and Adult Emotion Regulation Strategies (Between
20 and 35 Years)
Adults’ balanced-regulation strategies
Adults’ hypo-regulation strategies
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95% CI
Adults’ hyper-regulation strategies
95% CI
Variable
B
t
p
Low
High
r
Intercept
Infant security
2.78
.28
12.04
1.80
.000
.075
2.32
⫺.03
3.24
.58
.75
.17
B
t
p
95% CI
Low
High
r
B
t
p
Low
High
r
Infants’ attachment to mother
2.85
12.52 .000
2.40
ⴚ.35 ⴚ2.28 .025 ⴚ.65
3.30
ⴚ.05
.77
.22
2.23
⫺.18
11.24
⫺1.38
.000
.170
1.83
⫺.45
2.62
.08
.75
.14
Note. CI ⫽ confidence interval. Significant effects are highlighted in bold. Effect sizes (r) were computed using Rosenthal and Rosnow’s (2007) formula:
r ⫽ 公(t2 / t2 ⫹ df).
of results as infant attachment insecurity, adolescents with greater
friendship insecurity displayed worse balanced-regulation, and
greater hypo-regulation and hyper-regulation strategies, 4 –14
years later during discussion of a major conflict with their romantic partner.3 Our results also demonstrate that the association
between infant insecurity and hypo- and hyper-regulation strategies remained significant, but the association between stable infant
insecurity and balanced-regulation did not. This is consistent with
prior developmental models in which pathways of security progress into later relationships. However, our results also indicate that
attachment insecurity in both infancy and adolescence make independent contributions to hypo- and hyper-regulation strategies.
Thus, these results demonstrate the strong and persistent impact of
infant insecurity that does not necessarily work indirectly through
later insecurity processes.
Alternative Explanations
The association between infant and adolescent attachment security and emotion regulation strategies might be influenced by the
immediate relationship environment. Thus, we reran the analyses
reported in Table 4 controlling for the partners’ emotion regulation strategy that was identical to the dependent variable in each
model (e.g., controlling for partners’ balanced-regulation strategy,
when predicting individuals’ balanced-regulation strategy). Controlling for partners’ emotion regulation did not alter the association between infants’ stable insecurity and greater hypo-regulation
strategies, t ⫽ 2.87, p ⫽ .005 or infants’ unstable insecurity and
greater hyper-regulation strategies, t ⫽ 2.44, p ⫽ .017. However,
the association between infants’ stable insecurity and lower
balanced-regulation strategies was no longer significant when controlling for the shared association between dyads, t ⫽ ⫺1.44, p ⫽
.154. Furthermore, controlling for partners’ emotion regulation did
not alter the significant associations between friendship security
and hypo-regulation, t ⫽ ⫺2.15, p ⫽ .035, hyper-regulation,
t ⫽ ⫺2.17, p ⫽ .034, or balanced-regulation strategies, t ⫽ 2.90,
p ⫽ .005.
We also explored whether insecure infants’ tendencies to engage in poorer emotion regulation in adulthood might be buffered
by partners’ emotion regulation strategies (Overall & Simpson,
2015; Simpson & Overall, 2014). We reran our analyses and
included partners’ emotion regulation strategies as a moderator.
Additional analyses provided little evidence that romantic partners’ regulation strategies during the conflict discussions buffered
the link between infant attachment security and adult regulation
strategies (ts ⬍ ⫺1.68, ps ⬎ .95), with one exception that demonstrated an exacerbating (rather than a buffering) effect of hyperregulation strategies in combination with partners’ hypo-regulation
strategies (see the online supplementary materials for details).
Taken together, these additional analyses indicate that infant and
adolescent attachment security play an important role in the development of adult emotion regulation strategies, over and above
peoples’ immediate relationship environment.
General Discussion
A founding premise of attachment theory is that infant attachment shapes the development of emotion regulation strategies
across the life span. We provide novel evidence of this proposition
by using data from a unique longitudinal study (MLSRA) that
assessed attachment insecurity in infancy, friendship insecurity at
age 16, and theoretically relevant emotion regulation strategies in
threatening conflict interactions in adulthood 20 –35 years later.
The results supported that attachment insecurity was associated in
theoretically relevant ways with specific emotion regulation tendencies that should emerge given an individual’s earlier attachment history (see Table 1), including lower balanced-regulation
(open, approach-orientated, engaging in collaborative problemsolving), greater hypo-regulation (suppressing emotions, disengaging, engaging in superficial problem-solving), and greater
hyper-regulation (exaggerating their emotional expressions, ruminating, being self-focused in processing issues). Below, we discuss
the specific findings and their theoretical and practical implications.
Infant–Mother Attachment Patterns Predict
Regulation Strategies in Adulthood
Compared to individuals classified as stable secure infants,
those classified as stable insecure infants (insecure at 12 and 18
months) displayed lower balanced-regulation and greater hyporegulation strategies 20 –35 years later while discussing a conflict
with their romantic partner. Providing conceptual replication,
3
Some readers might wonder whether the association between infant
attachment security and adult regulation strategies occurs through friendship security at age 16. We found weak evidence for indirect effects, which
are outlined in the online supplementary materials.
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greater friendship insecurity at age 16 predicted worse balancedregulation and greater hypo-regulation patterns in adulthood. This
result was also consistent with secondary analyses using the continuous measure of infant attachment insecurity: infants who were
rated as secure more often (at both 12 and 18 months) displayed
lower hypo-regulation strategies 20 –35 years later. The results are
important given that hypo-regulation strategies undermine psychological wellbeing, health, and interpersonal functioning (for recent
meta-analytic reviews, see Aldao et al., 2010; Chervonsky & Hunt,
2017, 2019). Another important finding that emerged was that,
compared to stable secure infants, unstable insecure infants (insecure at 12 or 18 months) displayed greater hyper-regulation strategies in adulthood. Providing conceptual replication, greater
friendship insecurity at age 16 also predicted greater hyperregulation patterns in adulthood. However, this finding did not
emerge when examining the continuous measure of infant attachment security.
Why did inconsistencies emerge when predicting hyperregulation strategies in adulthood? It might be possible that
changes in attachment classification from 12- to 18-months old
reflect error or unreliability in measurement. Specifically, given
that the proportion of unstable infant attachment was so large
(33.3%), it might be the case that the Strange Situation Procedure
may not be sensitive enough to tease apart attachment-related
changes versus non-attachment-related factors that may also shape
emotion regulation strategies (e.g., child illness, parent– child relationship stress, infants’ temperament; Katz & Gottman, 1991;
Khan et al., 2019; Szepsenwol & Simpson, 2019; Thompson &
Calkins, 1996). Nonetheless, the 33.3% of individuals who experienced unstable infant attachment aligns very closely to research
suggesting that categorical attachment ratings remain stable 60%
of the time and that people experience considerable change in
attachment security across time (Fraley & Roisman, 2019; Groh et
al., 2014; Scharfe, 2003). Having a third of our at-risk sample
experience unstable attachment ratings is also consistent with work
demonstrating that individuals who experience significant withinperson variation in attachment across time have more turbulent
family histories (Davila, Burge, & Hammen, 1997; Vaughn et al.,
1979). Fluctuations in attachment also have meaningful consequences (Girme et al., 2018; La Guardia, Ryan, Couchman, &
Deci, 2000). For example, individuals who experience greater
fluctuations in their relationship-specific attachment security report lower relationship satisfaction over time, especially if they are
secure and expect relationship stability (Girme et al., 2018). Similarly, unstable infant attachment patterns are associated with
greater hyper-regulation strategies in adulthood, highlighting how
instability in infant attachment predicted a theoretically relevant
emotion regulation strategy. Thus, it is unlikely that unstable
attachment patterns reflect measurement error and may instead
reflect meaningful differences in conceptualizing attachment stability.
The inconsistencies between analytic strategies might suggest
that our analysis on patterns of infant attachment stability yield
more insightful associations between patterns of infant attachment
and emotion regulation strategies that might be missed when
examining continuous measures of infant attachment. Prior research on infant attachment has predominately treated infant attachment as a continuous measure, where infants’ attachment
scores reflect how many time-points the infant was rated as secure
(zero, one, or two times; Sroufe et al., 2005). However, by treating
each pattern of attachment insecurity independently (stable secure,
stable insecure, and unstable insecure), this application recognizes
that the differences in the stability of infant insecurity may reflect
different caregiving histories and early life environments that can
interfere with parents’ caregiving and responsiveness, and undermine children’s development of adaptive emotion regulation
(Cassidy, 1994; Main, 1990; Szepsenwol & Simpson, 2019). More
specifically, compared to those with stable security in infancy,
individuals who had stable insecurity in infancy may have had
harsher upbringings (e.g., low socioeconomic background, poverty; Szepsenwol & Simpson, 2019) and/or unresponsive or rejecting caregiving, which could mean that individuals have trouble
being open and comfortable with their emotions (lower balancedregulation strategies), and suppress their emotions or disengage
from uncomfortable situations in order to protect themselves from
hurt (greater hypo-regulation strategies).
In contrast, individuals who had unstable insecurity in infancy
may have experienced a very different environment that was
fraught with an unstable home life (e.g., inconsistent financial
resources, family conflicts; Szepsenwol & Simpson, 2019) and/or
inconsistent caregiving. Indeed, unstable security in infancy
(changes from secure to anxious) is associated with greater stressful life events (e.g., mothers’ reports about work, health, finances),
compared to stable security in infancy (Vaughn et al., 1979).
Furthermore, infants with unstable backgrounds (parental depression, domestic violence, or chronic parent– child relationship
stress) become hypervigilant to cues of impending conflict, experience ambivalent responses to parents, and experience heightened
distress (Katz & Gottman, 1991; Khan et al., 2019; Thompson &
Calkins, 1996), which are similar to the hyper-regulation strategies
associated with people who exhibited unstable insecurity in infancy (also see Cassidy, 1994; Cassidy & Berlin, 1994; Main,
1990). Thus, the current approach provides a novel way of examining stable versus unstable patterns of infant attachment insecurity that reveal meaningful differences in emotion regulation.
Nonetheless, our conceptualization of patterns of infant attachment
is rooted in theories on within-person variation in attachment, and
future research should aim to replicate these effects.
Theoretical and Practical Implications
Focusing on attachment theory helped to integrate the massive
literature on emotion regulation strategies. The three patterns of
emotion regulation identified here (see Table 1) align with the
three common emotion regulation factors recently identified
(Naragon-Gainey et al., 2017), but go further to suggest that each
category has distinct developmental underpinnings. This advances
the emotion regulation literature by clarifying our understanding of
why people develop certain emotion regulation strategies and, in
doing so, has practical implications for how insecure individuals
could develop more balanced and constructive strategies for managing their emotions. Although we cannot change people’s caregiving histories, working on fostering security in adulthood to
overcome negative expectations may help to override the automatic strategies developed in infancy (see Main, 1990). Perhaps
more importantly, these results may help inform individuals’ parenting strategies, given that parents’ emotion regulation shapes
how parents cope with the demands of caregiving (Rutherford,
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Wallace, Laurent, & Mayes, 2015), which should have implications for their children’s attachment security (Bowlby, 1973) and
the intergenerational transmission of emotion regulation strategies
(Rutherford et al., 2015).
The current research also clarifies that hypo- and hyperregulation strategies most likely stem from different early life and
caregiving experiences, which may require tailored therapeutic
approaches. Individuals who develop a hypo-regulation strategy
may benefit from having their emotional experiences accepted and
validated, whereas those who develop a hyper-regulation strategy
may benefit more from having their feelings downregulated before
their heightened emotions are triggered (see Overall & Simpson,
2015; Simpson & Overall, 2014). Existing therapeutic approaches
also involve similar strategies for discouraging the suppression of
negative feelings and promoting open and constructive communication of negative feelings (Johnson, 2015) or practicing exposure
to situations that elicit negative feelings or stress to help deal with
situations that trigger trauma or anxiety (Foa & Kozak, 1986).
Nonetheless, the current article provides valuable extensions by
distinguishing between different patterns of emotion regulation
and shedding light on one way in which emotion regulation strategies may develop.
Caveats About Longitudinal Attachment Research and
Future Directions
Like many other longitudinal studies, our dataset was not designed to test the specific processes reported here, which has
implications for gaps and inconsistencies in our research (Dozier et
al., 2005). For example, we do not have sufficient data on adult
romantic attachment orientations, which limited our ability to test
whether infant attachment predicts adult romantic attachment (Fraley, 2002; although also see Fraley & Roisman, 2019), which in
turn might be a more proximal predictor of emotion regulation in
adulthood. Indeed, several pathways may explain developmental
processes leading from infancy to adulthood (Hill, Edmonds, &
Jackson, 2019), but the underlying mechanisms that explain how
infant–mother attachment impacts attachment-relevant emotion
regulation strategies within adult romantic relationships remain
unclear. Beyond infant attachment representations, insecure infants may learn maladaptive regulation strategies from their caregivers (Kim, Pears, Capaldi, & Owen, 2009; Low et al., 2019) or
use emotion regulation strategies due to genetic predispositions
(Hariri & Holmes, 2006) or unconscious physiological processes
(Calkins, Dedmon, Gill, Lomax, & Johnson, 2002).
Furthermore, given the relatively low numbers of insecure infants in our sample, we were unable to examine associations
between secure, anxious, and avoidant categories and attachmentrelevant emotion regulation strategies in adulthood. As is common
in attachment research with children, anxious and avoidant infants
were combined into an “insecure” category, which may camouflage the unique strategies anticipated for anxious (hyperregulation) versus avoidant (hypo-regulation) individuals. Furthermore, our attachment patterns did not distinguish between the
direction of change (secure ¡ insecure vs. insecure ¡ secure).
Although changes from secure to insecure attachment might be
more jarring (Girme et al., 2018), attachment instability during
infancy, regardless of the direction of change, may be sufficient to
generate hyper-regulation strategies. Small sample sizes limit these
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types of distinctions in many longitudinal attachment studies (Dozier et al., 2005). Well-powered longitudinal studies designed to
address these a priori hypotheses would help to address these
concerns (Brumariu, 2015).
Our assessment of infant–mother attachment patterns in the
Strange Situation Procedure may also be an imprecise measure of
infant attachment. The pattern of effects we found between infant–
mother attachment and individuals’ emotion regulation strategies
used many years later in romantic relationships makes a unique
and significant contribution to both the attachment and the emotion
regulation literatures. Nonetheless, the Strange Situation Procedure provides only a snapshot of parent– child interactions, and it
does not assess how parents respond to children across different
contexts (Dozier et al., 2005; Grossmann et al., 2005). Supporting
the need to focus on more specific types of attachment interactions,
Grossmann et al. (2005) found that infant attachment assessed via
the Strange Situation did not significantly predict attachment security in adulthood, but more focused assessments of parental
sensitivity and support during children’s exploration did predict
attachment security in adulthood (although both assessments did
significantly predict emotion regulation during childhood and adolescence). Future research should consider multiple conceptualizations of attachment security rather than relying on only one
operationalization of attachment security (Dozier et al., 2005;
Grossmann et al., 2005).
Similarly, infant attachment insecurity may be better represented by assessing attachment security repeatedly across time and
across multiple attachment relationships (Dagan & Sagi-Schwartz,
2018; Grossmann et al., 2005). We were restricted to assessing
infants’ attachment at just two time-points. Assessing infant attachment multiple times, however, is likely to provide more accurate measurements of infant attachment across daily life (Dozier et
al., 2005) and developmental phases (Grossmann et al., 2005).
Multiple assessments of infant attachment are especially important
to more reliably assess the presence and consequences of stable
versus unstable patterns of infant attachment across time. Finally,
we only examined infant–mother attachments, but infant–father
attachments are also likely to play an important role in shaping
emotion regulation patterns (Dagan & Sagi-Schwartz, 2018;
Grossmann et al., 2005). Future research should consider examining both infant–mother and infant–father relationships to more
comprehensively assess attachment processes that shape emotion
regulation patterns across time.
Conclusions
The current research integrated the developmental and emotion
regulation literatures to identify specific attachment-relevant emotion regulation strategies: balanced-regulation (being open,
approach-orientated, and collaborative problem-solving), hyporegulation (suppressing emotions, disengaging, and superficial
problem-solving), and hyper-regulation (exaggerated emotional
expressions, rumination, and self-focused processing). The results
offer novel evidence that infant attachment insecurity prospectively predicts attachment-relevant emotion regulation strategies in
adulthood 20 –35 years later. This research opens up new avenues
of study to examine factors and mechanisms that explain the
connection between early attachment insecurity and different emotion regulation strategies employed in adulthood.
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Authenticity in Relationships: Predicting Caregiving and Attachment in
Adult Romantic Relationships
Tânia Gouveia
Marc S. Schulz
University of Porto
Bryn Mawr College
Maria Emília Costa
University of Porto
The primary purpose of this research was to examine associations between authenticity in relationships
and romantic attachment and caregiving. Authenticity is approached as a relational phenomenon that is
facilitated when individuals assume that truthful and open communication with one’s partner will be
reciprocally valued despite prospective risks. Items from the Authenticity in Relationship Scale (AIRS;
Lopez & Rice, 2006) were translated to Portuguese, back-translated by a bilingual expert, and then
reviewed by other researchers. Four hundred Portuguese participants (23–71 years old) in long-term
intimate relationships completed the Portuguese version of the scale (AIRS-P) as well as the Romantic
Attachment Questionnaire (Matos, Cabral, & Costa, 2008) and the Caregiving Questionnaire (Torres &
Oliveira, 2010). A few items from the original AIRS loaded poorly in the Portuguese sample. However,
confirmatory factor analysis of the AIRS-P established the presence of the 2 original underlying factors:
unacceptability of deception and intimate risk taking. Structural equation modeling results indicated that
authenticity in relationships is linked in expected ways to romantic attachment and caregiving to a
partner. The correlates found in this Portuguese sample are similar to those found in previous research
with American samples, suggesting cross-cultural consistency in the nature of authenticity.
Keywords: authenticity in relationships, romantic attachment, caregiving to partner, adults
Researchers have begun to approach authenticity in a more
relationally oriented framework and to identify its multiple components. Kernis and Goldman (2006) defined dispositional authenticity as the unconstrained operation of an individual’s true self in
everyday interactions. They delineated four dimensions of authenticity: being aware of one’s own intrinsic motives, feelings, and
cognitions; being able to evaluate the self in an unbiased way
despite others’ opinions; behaving according to one’s inner values
and needs rather than external expectations; and engaging with
close others in ways that reflect openness and sincerity so that
others see one’s real self. In conceptualizing authenticity in relationships, Lopez and Rice (2006) expanded these last two dimensions in the context of adult romantic relationships, defining authenticity in relationships as a “relational schema that favors the
benefits of mutual and accurate exchanges of real selfexperiences with one’s intimate partner over the attendant risks
of personal discomfort, partner disapproval or relationship instability” (p. 364).
The Authenticity in Relationships Scale (AIRS; Lopez & Rice,
2006), which assesses this construct, is the central measure of the
present study. On the basis of the literature and emerging ideas,
Lopez and Rice’s (2006) research team developed an initial item
pool, with the underlying goal of capturing perceived beneficial or
adverse consequences of authentic interactions within a romantic
relationship. They did an exploratory factor analysis with these
Many prominent psychological theorists and clinicians consider
authentic self-expression a key feature of healthy individual and
relational functioning (e.g., Erickson, 1968; Maslow, 1970). There
is, however, a lack of empirical study of authentic self-expression,
and important questions remain about the best way to conceptualize it. Harter (2002) defined authenticity as acting and expressing
oneself in ways that are consistent with inwardly experienced
values, desires, and emotions. Authenticity has often been conceptualized as an individual personality trait, yet the capacity to act
authentically also arises in interactional contexts with others. In
particular, authenticity appears to depend on the perceived safety
to reveal one’s inner thoughts and feelings in specific social or
relational contexts (Neff & Suizzo, 2006).
This article was published Online First December 14, 2015.
Tânia Gouveia, Faculty of Psychology and Educational Sciences, University of Porto; Marc S. Schulz, Department of Psychology, Bryn Mawr
College; Maria Emília Costa, University of Porto.
This project was sponsored by Foundation for Science and Technology
Grant SFRH/BD/69949/2010.
Correspondence concerning this article should be addressed to Tânia
Gouveia, Faculty of Psychology and Educational Sciences, University of
Porto, Rua Alfredo Allen, 4200-135 Porto, Portugal. E-mail: tgouveia@
fpce.up.pt.
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items on half of their sample (total n ⫽ 487), and two factors
emerged. Using the other half of their sample, they conducted
confirmatory factor analyses (CFAs), which provided support for
the two-factor solution. The factors were unacceptability of deception and intimate risk taking. Unacceptability of deception reflects
resistance to maintaining and showing inauthentic self and partner
representations; intimate risk taking describes a personal tendency
for openness and intimate self-disclosure with a romantic partner
(Lopez & Rice, 2006). Whereas dispositional conceptions consider
authenticity measurement as an approach to individual differences,
possibly linked to relational backgrounds, the AIRS characterizes
authenticity as a relational phenomenon that is facilitated when
interactions undertake a truthful open communication with one’s
partner that will be mutually valued despite potential risks.
Authenticity has been linked to a number of beneficial psychological and relational qualities. Studies using the Big Five personality traits have found that individuals with a more-authentic self
tend to be more extroverted, agreeable, conscientious, open to new
experiences, and nonneurotic (Wood, Linley, Maltby, Baliousis, &
Joseph, 2008). Research has also supported the links between
authenticity and greater life and role satisfaction (Wood et al.,
2008), positive affect (Goldman & Kernis, 2002), self-esteem
(Kernis, 2003), optimism (Harter, Bresnick, Bouchey, & Whitesell, 1997) and less-depressive symptomatology (Wood et al.,
2008). Several studies have found associations between authenticity and more-fulfilling intimate relations, suggesting that authenticity may promote relationship satisfaction (Lopez & Rice, 2006)
and adjustment (Brunell et al., 2010). Individuals with higher
levels of authenticity also report being more motivated to attain
intimacy (Kernis, 2003). Other research has supported these adaptive relational effects by connecting authenticity to less defensiveness when describing experiences that threaten self-esteem (Lakey,
Kernis, Heppner, & Lance, 2008) and to less self-concealment and
disorganization (Lopez & Rice, 2006). Authenticity in relationships is closely linked to current partner characteristics and relational dynamics such as support and acceptance of the other’s self.
Harter et al. (1997) suggested that individuals’ perceptions of
partner validation were connected to the individuals’ own perceived authenticity in the relationship.
Adult Romantic Attachment System
The attachment system, which helps to maintain proximity to a
partner, may be an important contributor to authenticity. Whereas
infants’ attachment involves emotional bonds with parental figures
(Bowlby, 1969), adults’ attachment needs transform, and the main
attachment figure tends to become one’s romantic partner (Hazan
& Shaver, 1987). Bartholomew and Horowitz (1991) argued that
romantic attachment could be understood in terms of the positivity
or negativity of one’s views about the self and others. These
models of self and others can be combined to capture the four adult
attachment styles that are widely emphasized in the literature:
secure, preoccupied, fearful, and dismissive. The secure attachment style, linked with early experiences of supportive relationships, is characterized by a positive model of the self and others.
Secure individuals tend to be capable of developing intimate
relations with low levels of avoidance and high levels of trust
(Matos, 2002). The preoccupied style is characterized by a positive
model of others and negative view of the self. Preoccupied indi-
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viduals tend to seek others’ attention constantly, leading to high
anxiety and dependence in their relationships. The dismissive style
is marked by a positive model of the self and negative view of
others. This style is thought to arise as a way to cope with rejection
from an attachment figure and is associated with the avoidance of
intimacy and reports of low levels of anxiety about relationships.
Finally, fearfully attached individuals are characterized by a negative model of the self and others. They tend to have high anxiety
levels about relationships while they simultaneously avoid intimacy due its inherent risks, leading to ambivalence (Bartholomew
& Horowitz, 1991; Matos, 2002). From this perspective, secure
attachment would contribute to authenticity in self-presentation
and be a source of accurate self-perceptions (Leak & Cooney,
2001). Past research has confirmed that greater authenticity is
linked to less attachment avoidance and anxiety (Gillath, Sesko,
Shaver, & Chun, 2010; Lopez & Rice, 2006). Attachment anxiety
might lead to an overconcern about partner’s approval and a
questioning about one’s own value, which in turn could contribute
to cause the the avoidance of real exchanges. Individuals who are
avoidant in their attachment tend to hide their vulnerabilities and
emotions, thus reducing their authentic self-disclosure (Neff &
Harter, 2002).
Adult Romantic Caregiving System
Adult romantic relations involve not only the attachment system
but also the caregiving system. In fact, attachment and caregiving
are linked and reciprocally influence each other. Just as needy
children seek their parents, adults look to their romantic partner for
protection, support, and care when faced with adversity or personal
challenges (Collins & Ford, 2010). A responsive adult caregiver
meets a partner’s needs for support when the caregiving system is
activated by suffering or distress. A responsive caregiver provides
care and love, understands a partner’s feelings and attitudes, and
facilitates autonomy and personal growth (Reis & Shaver, 1988).
Research findings have suggested that responsive caregiving is
vital for fulfilling and stable relationships (Collins & Feeney,
2000) and is related to attachment security (Mikulincer & Shaver,
2007). Despite the fact that the caregiving system has been viewed
as a vital component of adult emotional bonds, it has received little
empirical attention (Collins & Ford, 2010). This study is intended
to address this gap as well as the understudied link between
authenticity in relationships and caregiving to partner.
Goals of the Study
The primary purpose of this research is to examine associations
between authenticity in relationships and romantic attachment and
caregiving. It is expected that dimensions of authenticity will be
positively linked with attachment security and caregiving responsiveness. Past research on authenticity has focused mostly on
adolescents or undergraduate samples from North America (e.g.,
Brunell et al., 2010; Gillath et al., 2010; Impett et al., 2013; Lopez
& Rice, 2006; Neff & Suizzo, 2006), such as the sample in the
AIRS validation study by Lopez and Rice (2006). Because adult
participants may have different experiences in intimate relationships (Waldinger, Cohen, Schulz, & Crowell, 2015), this study
explores the applicability of the AIRS to older individuals. By
examining authenticity in a Portuguese sample, this study also
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provides an opportunity to explore the cross-cultural consistency
of the construct of authenticity and its linkage to relevant relationship characteristics.
Method
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Participants and Procedure
Participants were all volunteers (no compensation was given)
and were required to be married or to have been living together for
at least 1 year. Because a certain amount of time is needed to create
an attachment bond (Zeifman & Hazan, 1997), participants were
limited to those already in a committed relationship. Past research
(e.g., Downing, 2008) has found differences in authenticity due to
relationship status (single, dating, married/living together), so the
study sought to minimize this possible bias. The majority of the
participants were graduate students or employees (academic and
nonacademic) from various departments of the University of Porto,
the larger public university in Portugal. The study was advertised
through the university e-mail service, and participants were informed about the research goals, data confidentiality, and anonymity. Other participants were recruited through the snowball
method. Questionnaires were completed online or on paper at the
university facilities. The small number of participants with missing
data (only some hard copy questionnaires were not completed)
were excluded from analyses (n ⫽ 27). The final sample consisted
of 400 participants (200 women and 200 men) between 23 and 71
years of age (M ⫽ 43.31, SD ⫽ 13.90). All of the participants were
married or living together from 1 to 52 years (M ⫽ 18.46, SD ⫽
14.68). Regarding education, 41.3% of the participants reported
that they had not completed high ...
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