Hollis (2018) argues women should resist both the urge to judge others, and the compulsion to compete with others. In order to get past the desire to judge others, women need to make an admission that nobody is immune (Hollis, 2018). This is only possible after the realization that no one is better, or righter than the others. For Hollis, she took conscious steps to get past the undesirable habit of judging other women. For example, she kept non-judgment friends, kept check of herself, and dealt with the problem after admitting its existence (Hollis, 2018).