Untamed
Glennon Doyle
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Prologue: Cheetah
Author and narrator Glennon Doyle reflects on a trip to the zoo that she took with her wife and daughters. The handlers of a tame cheetah, named Tabit...
Chapter 1 Sparks
In the beginning, Glennon bluntly states that four years prior, she had fallen in love with a woman while married to a man. Then, she reminisces about...
Chapter 2 Apples
At 10 years old, Glennon is attending CCD to be taught about God. This time, her teacher is explaining the creation of humans to the children. Glennon...
Chapter 3 Blow Jobs
Glennon visits her couples’ therapist alone to discuss the issue of falling in love with another woman while trying to work through issues with her ...
Chapter 4 Directions
Glennon looks for her own shampoo in her children’s shared bathroom. She picks up the various bottles belonging to her son and daughters and reads t...
Chapter 5 Tick Marks
Glennon discusses high school and the people that were known as the “Golden Ones”, who were always members of the homecoming court. While she was ...
Chapter 6 Algorithms
Glennon reflects on her issues with indecision, referencing the methods used to decide the fate of her marriage after her husband’s infidelity. Inst...
Chapter 7 Gatherings
Glennon’s teenage son has his friends over, and she decides to ask them if they are hungry. Immediately, the boys say “yes”, while the girls loo...
Chapter 8 Rules
Glennon shares a story about her friend, Ashley, who attended a hot yoga class. The instructor told them not to leave, but the door remained unlocked....
Chapter 9 Dragons
This chapter begins with Glennon describing a snow globe with a red dragon inside. As a small child, she was terrified of having the globe close to he...
Chapter 10 Arms
Glennon is attending a book conference for her second memoir, which describes the reconstruction of her family after her husband cheated. She reflecte...
Chapter 11 Feel
After less than a week of sobriety, Glennon struggled with the amount that she had to feel. She describes how hard it is just to live, saying that it ...
Chapter 12 Know
Glennon revisits her inability to reach a decision on her own, along with her irrational desire to please everybody. Later, she read the verse “Be s...
Chapter 13 Imagine
Glennon touches on the importance of imagination. She realized that she had to imagine a better life for herself to make it happen. That being said, t...
Chapter 14 Let it Burn
Glennon’s main idea in this chapter is that before our outer worlds can match up with our inner Knowing and imagination, the old version of life mus...
Chapter 15 Aches
Glennon describes the Ache, which she has felt since childhood. When she wants to relax and love someone, she is reminded that it will end, usually wi...
Chapter 16 Ghosts
Glennon describes the idea of a perfect woman as a ghost that haunts her. She used to try to live up to those impossible standards, but even when she ...
Chapter 17 Smiles
Glennon goes to Paris with her sister and parents and reflects on its differences to America. Paris is old and calm, no longer trying so hard to be im...
Chapter 18 Goals
After Glennon got sober and stopped purging, she put everybody else’s needs ahead of her own, ultimately becoming a good wife, mother, Christian, an...
Chapter 19 Adam and Keys
Adam Levine saw Alicia Keys putting on lipstick after she announced that she was done wearing makeup and questioned her. She replied that she does wha...
Chapter 20 Ears
Glennon’s daughter, Tish, speaks up about not wanting to get her ears pierced at the same time as her independent younger sister, Amma. The piercer ...
Chapter 21 Terms
Glennon talks about her friend, Liz, who she met at an airport. She described Liz as a confident, free woman who knew what she wanted and was certain ...
Chapter 22 Erikas
Glennon reflects on one of her friend’s experiences with art. Erika’s life was full of selfless sacrifices and the only thing that made her happy ...
Chapter 23 Beach Houses
Glennon discussed the difference between surface desires and true desires. Many times, women ignore their desires because they seem unreasonable and i...
Chapter 24 Temperature
Glennon describes a decision-making process where she tries to feel each option instead of weighing them in her mind. Whichever option feels warm and ...
Chapter 25 Mirrors
Glennon sees herself in her eldest daughter, Tish. She wants what is best for her, but questions if she is doing the right thing. She asks herself, �...
Chapter 26 Eyes
Glennon discusses the importance of living fully and being completely true to oneself as a parent. Rather than martyring herself and, in turn, passing...
Chapter 27 Gardens
Glennon knew how to be wanted and desired, but did not know how to want or desire anything for herself until she met Abby. After they were together fo...
Chapter 28 Touch Trees
Glennon watches a survivalist show and compares a “touch tree” — a large, distinct tree to come back to in order to increase one’s chances of ...
Chapter 29 Buckets
Glennon’s daughter, Tish, feels lonely in her own body; like there should be somebody else with her. Glennon compares it to buckets of water taken f...
Chapter 30 Attendants
Liz compares Glennon and her husband to flight attendants, their children to passengers, and their divorce to turbulence. The way she sees it, flight ...
Chapter 31 Memos
Glennon criticizes the new type of parenting where children are shielded and obsessed over. The way she sees it, children must experience life with pa...
Chapter 32 Poems
Glennon reflects on her son’s change after getting a phone. After a while, she knew that she was not doing the right thing by letting him keep it. W...
Chapter 33 Boys
Glennon reaches beyond feminism and recognizes that boys are also taught to deny their whole selves; they are also caged and taught to deny anything t...
Chapter 34 Talks
As a 12-year-old, Tish was convinced that the idea of beauty sold in magazines was a lie and that women should treat each other equally based on their...
Chapter 35 Woods
Glennon covers the struggle of trying to help one’s children with difficult problems. She uses her friend’s experience with a son watching porn. I...
Chapter 36 Cream Cheeses
Glennon reflects on an instance when she was asked to provide bagels for her child’s athletic team. A mother requested that she provided all of the ...
Chapter 37 Bases
Glennon covers the different types of privilege and how they can affect the viewpoints of different people. Glennon talks about her non-profit organiz...
Chapter 38 Islands
A parent writes to Glennon, asking whether or not to tell their fundamentalist parents about their daughter’s recent decision to come out as gay. Gl...
Chapter 39 Boulders
A scared new mother writes to Glennon about her fear that she will not be able to love her baby properly because her mother failed to do the same. Gle...
Chapter 40 Blood Baths
Here, Glennon decided to reveal to the world her love for Abby and the life they have built together. While she was scared and had expected a blood ba...
Chapter 41 Racists
Glennon talks about the white moderate in contrast to white people actively engaged in the fight for civil rights for other races. Rather than sitting...
Chapter 42 Questions
An older woman at one of Glennon’s events asks, “Why is everybody so gay all of the sudden?” (Doyle 182). Glennon felt relieved that she had the...
Chapter 43 Permission Slips
Glennon discusses sexuality and her decision to leave her mixed-gendered marriage for a same-gendered one. She argues that sexuality might be a choice...
Chapter 44 Concessions
Glennon shares her belief that the common phrase, “we love you no matter what” (Doyle 189), which is often used after a child comes out to their p...
Chapter 45 Decals
Glennon discusses leaders, in this case, priests, who ask for trust without question. They ask for people to mistrust themselves and trust them as the...
Chapter 46 Girl Gods
Glennon addresses her use of “she” when referring to God. While she thinks that God is not anything that can be gendered, she uses “she” becau...
Chapter 47 Conflicts Summary
One of Glennon’s old friends has a conflict of faith because she believes that gayness is wrong, but wants to love Glennon and her family unconditio...
Chapter 48 Streams
Glennon discusses her non-profit, Together Rising, and the importance of being And/Both. Essentially, this means that they have to be willing to help ...
Chapter 49 Lies
Glennon recalls an instance where she was laughing with her friend about the destruction and construction of various aspects of their lives. When Glen...
Chapter 50 Deliveries
Glennon compares “hard things” to the interrupting and panic-inducing nature of a doorbell. Although it is scary and nerve-racking at first, there...
Chapter 51 Invaders
Glennon describes depression and anxiety as invaders or “body snatchers” because they stop her from living in the moment. However, many of her tra...
Chapter 52 Comfort Zones
Glennon discusses the knee-jerk reaction to dislike strong, confident girls because of our conditioning. Society tells us that girls should be meek, a...
Chapter 53 Elmers
Abby was convinced that Tish needed to try out for an elite soccer team, despite her lack of athletic ability. Although Tish and Glennon both struggle...
Chapter 54 Luckies
Glennon discusses her amazing new life with her new family structure, but asserts that it is a life that she and Abby had imagined and built. She says...
Chapter 55 Buzzes
Glennon reflects on the stages of falling in love. The first is addictive and makes her feel special and unique like theirs is the only relationship o...
Chapter 56 Sandcastles
Glennon condemns the habit of women describing themselves in relation to people and things outside of themselves, such as a mother or wife. These arti...
Chapter 57 Guitars
Glennon discusses the importance of fun and doing something just because she wants to. Rather than resenting others for having hobbies, she chose to f...
Chapter 58 Braids
Craig, Glennon’s ex-husband, gets a girlfriend who is loved by Glennon’s children. She does certain activities with them that Glennon is unable, a...
Chapter 59 Seconds
Glennon reflects on her controlling ways, and how she kept waiting for things to go wrong so she could step-in and fix it, rather than argue about the...
Chapter 60 Ideas
Glennon talks to Craig about the past, before they were married. He had suggested that they raise the child separately, but side-by-side. He knew that...
Chapter 61 Sidelines
Glennon describes the momentary shock people experience when they see her unique family structure. Their family, she asserts, is unique, no longer try...
Chapter 62 Levels
Glennon vows to never again stay somewhere that requires self-abandonment. No matter what the situation, she swears to save herself from voluntary suf...
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